Planet (桃之夭夭)

               Being a Pillar For Your Partner       Hey there, in this blog I will cover the importance of supporting your partner when they are down! I will talk about how important it is for you to be able to take charge and support your partner when they are vulnerable!     Everyone has times when they feel vulnerable. Everyone has times when they feel down or hopeless! When we get this way (Like I know you have), we want to have a place where we feel like we can go and feel safe! It's hard acting tough all of the time! Everyone needs a safe place! Everyone needs someone they can turn to when things are hard! For many of us, this place is our romantic partner!   We should be able to depend on our partners when we are weak! Our partners should also be able to depend on us! In a relationship supporting your partner, comforting them, and taking charge when your partner is vulnerable is important! We should all be able to do this for our lovers! Even if your partner is 6,905 miles

  Being Honest With Your Long-Distance Partner!...      Honesty is important in all relationships! If you aren't honest with your partner it is going to lead to misunderstandings and miscommunication! Trust someone whose boyfriend is Chinese! My boyfriend has misunderstood me before not because I wasn't being honest but because he isn't completely fluent in English which is why I believe being honest is super important! Because when your partner's native language isn't English and you can't really speak their native tongue, misunderstandings do happen! That is why you should always be open and honest with your partner about everything! Let them in on your life! Tell them honestly who you are don't sugarcoat things about yourself to make yourself seem better because that is when dishonesty becomes catfishing! Because you aren't giving them the real you! Just a manipulated version of you that isn't really who you are!  Dishonesty     I shouldn't re

Planet (桃之夭夭)               Some Challenges to Being in a Long-Distance Relationship!...            Hello! I am writing my second blog post! In this post, I will cover some of the Challenges I have experienced so far!   The distance  Obviously, distance is a big challenge! Not being able to be next to your partner when they are hurting or are sick is a terrible feeling! I know personally that it feels like you can't do anything! You kind of just feel useless overall! It also sucks because you just want to touch your partner you want to feel them touch you like other lovers can! You want to be able to hug them or kiss them whenever you want! It sucks that we can't do that! However, just because you are far away from your partner doesn't mean you have to feel the distance! I mean it is obviously there but you don't have to let it affect you or come in the way of your relationship! If you see your partner tired and stressed tell them to take a break! You could even suggest

    Planet (桃之夭夭)                                                   8/1/2024                    The Beginning of our Long-distance                                               Journey!!!           Hello everyone, I am starting this blog because I would like to share my journey and story of being in a committed long-distance relationship! I will also share some tips on long-distance relationships! I hope to help those in situations similar to mine to help them feel less like they are alone in this!!! I also want to help those who are too afraid to start a long-distance relationship but might want to give it a go! In this blog post, I will share the beginning of my story with you!       I am an American woman age 20. My boyfriend is Chinese age 24. We met on a pen pal website called Global Penfriends! He sent me a message saying he noticed we had some things in common and asked if I would like to talk! We started off more or so with me offering my help with his English! Now when I joine